I was involved in the Legislative discussion when this bill was presented, and got to try to straighten out some of the problems with it. (Unfortunately I was not entirely successful!) Here is a link to the final version of the law as posted on the Statute Search web page: https://legislature.maine.gov/legis/statutes/23/title23sec3121.html
The original intent of 23 MRS 3121 was to provide lenders with some sort of assurance that when they financed the purchase of a home on a private road, there would be some mechanism in place to insure that the access to that home would remain passable. Where there is already a road association established under 23 MRS 3101, or even any sort of informal maintenance agreement, this law does not apply. It only kicks in where there is no provision for maintenance. If the abutters cannot come to any sort of agreement, the "default" position that kicks in is that each landowner pays an equal share.
The intent of the new law was to fill the gap where 3101 does not apply because there are fewer than four benefited properties, or where no road association has been formed. In such cases, lenders may refuse to approve a mortgage. They borrowed language from a law in another state that supposedly has been working well, that is to say, it satisfied the lenders.
But as originally worded, the proposed bill conflicted with 23 MRS 3101-3104. It also used the ambiguous and outdated term "private way," which does not refer to privately owned roads, but to a class of roads now known as "public easements." Since public easements are open to pretty much unrestricted public use by foot or motor vehicle, forcing abutting landowners to maintain the road for public use at private expense would raise serious questions of constitutionality. This is mainly a problem on abandoned and discontinued roads, not private roads, so we got them to change the term from "private way" to "private road." Therefore it should not be applied to abandoned or discontinued roads, but apparently not all realtors understand that.
An early version of the bill required only residential properties to share in maintenance. In a state with a thriving logging industry, that could leave the owners of residential properties bearing the entire cost of maintenance, while log trucks could use the road with impunity. (I also know of cases where a gravel pit uses a private road, and they would also have been exempt.) We pushed to get ALL landowners to share the cost of road maintenance, and they did change the first line of the law to include all landowners. Unfortunately, farther down the first paragraph it still says, "each residential property owner" shares the cost of maintenance. Also, when that part of the legislation was changed, they also changed the part on Enforcement, so that instead of allowing a landowner to sue any other non-paying landowner, it now only says that the non-paying owner of a residential property can be sued. So I already know of one case where the buyer of a residential property was assured the abutters would share the cost of maintenance, but it turns out that none of the other properties are residential, and none of them will pay. This is a case not only of misapplication of the law to a discontinued road with a public easement, but also of failure of the law to require the non-residential properties to share the maintenance.